How do you turn that girl your friends with into a girlfriend? You have been friends for a long time but then one day it is like you see her for the first time. You notice every time she smiles at you and looks you in the eye making your heart beat faster. You slowly start to admit yourself that friendship is no longer enough and you want to act on that physical attraction you feel.
The problem is you love your friendship and you would hate to mess that up by misreading signals. You are asking yourself how do I convey your emotions. You think that it might be possible to evolve the relationship into something more but don’t know how to go about it. Your probably thinking how do I make a girlfriend out of a friend?
Listen don’t worry, you aren’t condemned to admiring her from afar. There are some simple steps that if you follow them you can get you the woman of your dreams.
First off, please be honest with yourself. Are you willing to give up the friendship that you had? Please take heed once you move on the path to make her your girlfriend then it is impossible to ever be the friends you were again. If you are unsure whether you want to do this then forget it.
OK, you have decided that yes I want to turn my friend into a girlfriend. Then the first step is to change her way of thinking. Women organize men into two type’s: boyfriends and everyone else. The trick is to get out of the “everyone else” category and into the “my boyfriend” category. Are you asking yourself how do I get her to see me as possible boyfriend?
Well men you got to begin acting like her boyfriend. How do you do this? Well it is easy; a good example would be to phone her up and then tell her that whatever her plans were forget them as you are going to take her for a cocktail/dinner and a moonlight stroll. When you do this be understated but at the same time resolute and make it an option so enticing that she can’t say no.
The lady in question may say “Oh but I have other plans with my girlfriends”. Well here comes the important bit, you have to be self-assured. Women love confident men who take the lead. Woman love men who take control, it is an alpha male thing. You have to say in reply “Hey I don’t care, cancel your plans because I am coming round to pick you up at (whatever time).
Whatever you do, don’t take her to a movie, concert or a show on the first five dates. The reason being is you are going to talk to her. Find out all about her on another deeper level. You are going to talk to her as a lover and not as a friend. You need to learn her desires, her wants, her wishes. Find out where her other boyfriends went wrong so you don’t make that mistake. It is imperative that she knows that you are really listening to what she is saying and that you make her the focus of the conversation.
Note, most importantly make sure you give her a goodnight kiss. If you don’t you are screwed because she will see you as a very nice friend who had just bought her a drink/dinner and you will being a worse position than before.
If you follow this plan and you don’t get the response you want i.e. unfortunately she doesn’t see you as boyfriend material. You have two options: you accept it and make yourself scarce in the hope that she starts to miss you and thinks that maybe you could have a future together. The second option is to begin working on her lack of enthusiasm. In this case, say something similar to “I accept that you don’t see me that way UNTIL NOW BUT I understand you will and this will be the foundation of our relationship”.
In conclusion guys, you have the power to make a girlfriend out of a friend it requires you to be bold, strong and dynamic and behave in way that shows the girl that your the man that could take care of her and she finds attractive and therefore perfect boyfriend material. Visit my site friend to lover and get that girl today!
